A little over 6 years ago I walked into my first gymnastics
class. It was an adult class made up entirely of ex-gymnasts
who were in the class just to play around, keep up their chops,
maybe break a sweat. They were graceful and powerful.
Impressive to watch them move.
I, on the other hand, was the only pure beginner - awkward
and clumsy to say the least. It was a rather embarrassing,
and at times humiliating, ordeal. I'm not an natural athlete
by any stretch so it was extremely hard for me - physically,
mentally and emotionally.
But I was there to learn and tried not to let the frustration
or embarrassment bother me. Naturally I wanted to be good
like the other students but I was so far off from that it wasn't
even funny.
It's a natural thing to size yourself up with others - who's got
the better handstand, or back handspring, who was stronger,
more flexible, etc. So comparing myself to the others, i.e.
competing against them, was out of the question. I'd lose that
contest hands down each time.
Once in a while we'd get a newbie like me in the class,
someone with no training or experience at all. Now here
was someone I could compete against, I thought. But these
guys turned out to be naturals, and invariably they'd far
surpass my level. Thus, I lost that competition as well. (Of
course these blokes would ultimately quit in a month or
so because it got too hard.)
So, no one was left to compete against other than myself.
This I had heard, was what you're supposed to do. "Don't
compete against others, rather only against yourself."
Sounded like good advice. This I would do. Here was
competition I could handle. Besides, I should only concern
myself with my own self, and no one else.
Of course that turned out to be bad as well. I competed
against myself and lost. I was attacking myself and each
time suffered. I was getting nowhere.
Then one day it hit me. Why not cooperate with myself
instead of competing against myself. This way I would be
working with myself toward a common goal, not fighting
at it. No forcing the issue, just all the parts of me working
together for one goal.
My words to myself would be only positive and encouraging;
I'd be happy training instead of anxious even if I were having
a bad day; I'd be at peace no matter what happened.
This put me in a state of calm and tranquility which only from
there could I progress in the sport. I've done this in other parts
of my life and it's worked wonders.
Would you fight against a teammate or a coworker? No. You
cooperate with them to get the job done. This is imperative
for you to do. This is the problem I see in so many people trying
to get fit. They don't cooperate with themselves. If you're against
yourself then you will lose every time.
Wishing you the best,
Eddie Baran
P.S. In German, the word for cooperation is Zusammenarbeit,
which literally translates as "together work." Exactly. Work
together, with yourself, to get your fittest physique fastest.
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