New Year's Evolution
During the 1990's, every January 1st I'd make my New Year's
resolutions. They might have had to do with fitness or career or anything else.
And almost like clockwork, come January 15th or so, I'd have already
given them up.
I couldn't keep them for even two weeks. And so I figured the entire
year was shot and I'd have to wait another 50 weeks before I could try
again. So the rest of the year I spent wallowing and thinking I had blown
it for the year.
This is the problem with New Year's resolutions. They seem so written
in stone and shackled with time. And if you slip up you feel like you're
condemned to failure.
And another thing. With resolutions it's like you don't even expect to
follow them. You don't take them seriously. I don't know a single
successful person who does them. In fact, I don't know a single person who's
kept to one.
That's why I like the word "Evolution." It connotes something big but
not so strict, or serious. You are going to evolve into something.
Evolution is a series of zigging and zagging to the goal. Ups and downs,
good and bad. It's all part of the process.
Let's say you have a goal of losing some serious poundage. You're going
along okay with your feedings and exercising but then you slip up: you
go on a three-day bender of donuts and TV . Under the rules of New
Year's resolutions you've blown it and the year is a wash. You then beat
yourself up and can't recover.
But if you realize this little episode is all part of your evolution,
then it's no big deal. It's just a natural part of your growth. As long
as these binges don't occur too often or too long, then you'll be fine.
You evolve into the new you.
So what, you've fallen off the wagon and now you will get back up on it
and you'll be back on track to success. This is the year of your
Evolution (and Revolution). It's going to be big. Big changes are in store
for you, but realize that evolution is a process and is always moving in
the right direction.
Wishing you the best,
Eddie Baran
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